Your TBR is a river, not a bucket


Do you have a TBR, Reader?

By TBR, I mean "to be read"— a list (or pile) (or teetering stack) (or imaginary shelf overly crammed with more books than you could ever remember) of books you want to read.

There's that expression I'm sure you've heard: So many books, so little time.

I simultaneously don't like that quote and also FEEL IT in my bones.

I don't like it because the idea of "so many books, so little time" doesn't make me feel more delighted by my reading life. It makes me feel like reading is *one more thing* on my never-ending to-do list.

I... do not need that. I bet you don't either. 😅

But there are so many things I'm dying to read! So I do understand it.

I love the way Oliver Burkman talks about his TBR. In his newest book (Meditations for Mortals, which I loved), he writes:

Treat your to-read pile like a river, not a bucket. That is to say: think of your backlog not as a container that gradually fills up, and that it's your job to empty, but as a stream that flows past you, from which you get to pick a few choice items, here and there, without feeing guilty for letting all the others float by.

He goes on to say:

Most of the long-term benefits of reading arise not from facts you insert into your brain, but from the ways in which reading changes you, by shaping your sensibility, from which good work and good ideas will later flow.

(all of that bolding is mine)

(I actually double-underlined that last one in my copy of the book, and added a bunch of stars to the margin. That's Sarah shorthand for: YESSSSSS! 😆)

Our TBR is a river.

It's not "so many books, so little time" because you aren't supposed to read it all. So just pick up a floating leaf or twig as it floats by and read it for the sheer delight of reading it.

Not to empty the bucket. Not to check it off your list.

But just because reading makes us feel wholly, gloriously, completely alive.

xo, Sarah Mackenzie

P.S. If you need me this month, I'll be waist-deep in the river, enjoying the entire Emma M. Lion series on audio.

It. is. superb. Truly, I cannot remember a series I've enjoyed as much as this one. 😍


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